Wow that sounds crazy, do you think she's in love with him? I am truly not jealous of her (she has nothing I want, and the relationship I have with her brother is what I want, not the one she has), but I am just wondering if I am making a mountain out of a molehill or what, here.ĭo you think she is testing me, or is this obsessiveness of hers a major issue? How much does a potential in-law play in 2 people's lives together? Any insight or past experiences on this would be great, guys! Thanks! Their parents live 2 blocks away, and are capable of helping her, too. He brushes her off a lot, but because she doesn't have a boyfriend, she gets him to do all of the 'boyfriend' stuff like get her Christmas decorations down, help her move things, borrow lawn equipment, and work on her car. How do I respond to her comments in the future? Her obsessiveness with checking up on us, what we are doing, driving by his home, calling him all the time is just strange. Everyone agrees it seems to be coming from her. 'Jane (name has been changed) is just being Jane.' My boyfriend is about as square peg as you can get, and my sister agrees with me that there is nothing from his end to indicate the weirdness of all of this. His comment on all of that is, 'Don't worry about her. I have mentioned to him some of these things, but let's face it-he's her brother, and blood is thicker than water. She truly gets on my nerves, and I don't see us ever really hanging out, even if my boyfriend and I do get married. She is completely NOT my kind of person (loud, obnoxious, rude), and I tolerate her as best I can, for my man's sake.

She also strikes me as having lesbian tendencies, which is fine, but she tends to put gays down a lot (just another quirk of her belittling others and an additional side note) Other people that know her say that all she talks about is her brother, and how strange she is. She's talked about his tight butt, amongst other things. Since then, she has made strange comments to me about how if he wasn't her brother, she would 'hit that.' She's made comments about his nipples being erect when he was walking around without his shirt. I was shocked, and my boyfriend totally took my side on it, and distanced himself from her for a while. Then one night, she got in my face, and told me she wanted to kick my *ss. I have always been very kind to her, and complimented her on her hair, outfits, whatever. I have been told by many that I am beautiful inside and out. So to give myself a pat on the back, I have a college degree, make a very good living, and have no baggage to speak of. She is my age (he's a couple of years older), and has told him she thinks he can do better than me.

We are talking marriage, and although we have hit some trouble spots, we have seemed to come through it all on the other side more in love with each other than ever. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a couple of months. I desperately need unbiased opinions on this, and how I should handle it.

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